Spark vs no spark

Is it just me or are there more people who have been in a situation like this?
One moment..or ok a few times there is a spark and you are having a great time and then suddenly it's like that spark has gone off somewhere and is nowhere to be found!

This one night I was feeling quite angry towards all men. My bff was out with a group of friends of her man. She told me to shut up, stop moaning and come see her in town. So i did. We had a blast complaining about a lot of stuff (read: men). Then the music got turned up and we where the first ones to bomb the dance floor. We seriously had great fun!

But of course...after a while a men got involved. Telling me my bff was soo cool and so was I. “Yes, i know, but thanks anyway.” That’s what i told him.

He sticked with us and we chatted a little and a bit more. I must say he does deserve some credit for the way he approach me remembering the mood i was in. Well...i do remember having eye contact for quite a bit. There was a spark.

Anyway at the end of the night he asked me for my number. Later that week instead of a lousy text he phoned and asked me if i would be up for a date. Yes, ok. So we arranged to meet later that week.

He cancel last minute with a lame excuse. But I decided to give him a second change ;).

We had a sort of picknick in a park. It was nice and fun. We were chatting away. Later our friends joined us. It was a great time. We definitely felt attracted to each other.

The next week we met again. I cooked us a lovely meal. We did chat during dinner and so but that was it. All the rest was flown out the window. Nowhere to be found! So that was it. 
But we had fun those other times. That's what counts.